I can't start a game!!! (Help)

I got windows XP and I downloaded CrossFire works fine, than I loggin and join a room still works fine than I try to start and it get stucked at step 1 on the loading screen then I wait and the screen becomes black and than I get logged out :/

Do u guys know what program I'm missing?

I have

Java 7 update 65 (Can't have higher my Os is too old.)
Direct X 9c
Adobe flash player ActiveX 16


this but my is still black and I won't join: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xZoVNwtp50
After my CF is black awhile I get logged out.. from the black screen to my desktop :(


Is there any other program I need? Plz I need to know before tomorrow!!

I really want to buy zp for the new VIP tomorrow, but I can't right now :(, cuz I can't play!!!