Why are you single?
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sorry for bad grammar i'm on phone and in middle of work
I was in love with one girl as soon as we met, we were seeing each other in school every day and when we introduced each other officialy we were chatting every single day via FB + the time we were in school. We got to know each other very well and it was realy best time I had in my life if I neglect problems I had in family. I wanted to say to her how I feel about us but as I said I had serious problems in my family wich were pushing me toward suicide. She knows how I was feeling then and what problems I had and that was too much for me because I was carrying those problems since I was a kid. So I couldn't take care of myself and I would be in deeper sh** if I got in relationship with her and tho I needed someone beside me I went other way and said goodbye to her with explanation that I'm unstable at that time and I would probably go crazy cuz she lives in another town and because summer was coming I wouldnt be able to see her cuz we were still in school and I wouldn't be able to buy train tickets. As I was always a loner and had to think for myself and take care of my problems w/o anyones help I went my own way.
It took my more than a year and a half before I pulled myself together, I went trough 3 small period relationships but all of them sucked. As I had to go to highschool one more year as I fell a grade and she had to graduate that year I had to do something. I tried to get in contact with her and so I did. Ofcourse it wasnt like before so I decided to not force anything. As she finished school she found a job in her town as a weitress and I went it that bar every month or 2 just to see how is she. Few months passed and i went in open relationship with one other girl and I have been with her for 7 months, I almost cheated here when I went to Prague and then I figured out what I become and that I can't be in any relationship cuz I'm in love with one girl and it would be miserable life if I continue with non serious relationships. So one more relationship fell apart, few days later my dad died from heart attack. Next 2-3 months were dark times and tho I was alone I start to feel good because weight was liften from my back. Since my dad died I tried to be less stranger to that weitress so I went to that bar few times, but she was busy most of time and we didn't have enough time to talk. Few months passed and on february on Valentines day I decided to go in that bar to see her and give her a present. She was overjoyed and kissed me. That was the time when I realised there is still chance for us. She rarely talks to me but she always jumps in when she see that I'm feeling dark because I was always trying to make her feel better no matter what happpend. Last year she moved in city near sea for a better job so basicly on other side of country. Ofcourse I felt terrible and I thought its all over but I called her on next valentines day to invite her for at least one day so we go to band concert she really likes but she didn't have free days anymore. She let me know that she misses me and our talks trough the night. Few months later I got season job and I'm still here, waiting for the end of month, then Ill call her and ask her if she can let me in her home over weekend cuz I'm just few miles away from her and I hope she will let me in so we can finnaly put all cards on the table
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I was in love with one girl as soon as we met, we were seeing each other in school every day and when we introduced each other officialy we were chatting every single day via FB + the time we were in school. We got to know each other very well and it was realy best time I had in my life if I neglect problems I had in family. I wanted to say to her how I feel about us but as I said I had serious problems in my family wich were pushing me toward suicide. She knows how I was feeling then and what problems I had and that was too much for me because I was carrying those problems since I was a kid. So I couldn't take care of myself and I would be in deeper sh** if I got in relationship with her and tho I needed someone beside me I went other way and said goodbye to her with explanation that I'm unstable at that time and I would probably go crazy cuz she lives in another town and because summer was coming I wouldnt be able to see her cuz we were still in school and I wouldn't be able to buy train tickets. As I was always a loner and had to think for myself and take care of my problems w/o anyones help I went my own way.
It took my more than a year and a half before I pulled myself together, I went trough 3 small period relationships but all of them sucked. As I had to go to highschool one more year as I fell a grade and she had to graduate that year I had to do something. I tried to get in contact with her and so I did. Ofcourse it wasnt like before so I decided to not force anything. As she finished school she found a job in her town as a weitress and I went it that bar every month or 2 just to see how is she. Few months passed and i went in open relationship with one other girl and I have been with her for 7 months, I almost cheated here when I went to Prague and then I figured out what I become and that I can't be in any relationship cuz I'm in love with one girl and it would be miserable life if I continue with non serious relationships. So one more relationship fell apart, few days later my dad died from heart attack. Next 2-3 months were dark times and tho I was alone I start to feel good because weight was liften from my back. Since my dad died I tried to be less stranger to that weitress so I went to that bar few times, but she was busy most of time and we didn't have enough time to talk. Few months passed and on february on Valentines day I decided to go in that bar to see her and give her a present. She was overjoyed and kissed me. That was the time when I realised there is still chance for us. She rarely talks to me but she always jumps in when she see that I'm feeling dark because I was always trying to make her feel better no matter what happpend. Last year she moved in city near sea for a better job so basicly on other side of country. Ofcourse I felt terrible and I thought its all over but I called her on next valentines day to invite her for at least one day so we go to band concert she really likes but she didn't have free days anymore. She let me know that she misses me and our talks trough the night. Few months later I got season job and I'm still here, waiting for the end of month, then Ill call her and ask her if she can let me in her home over weekend cuz I'm just few miles away from her and I hope she will let me in so we can finnaly put all cards on the table
Pretty cool love story, hope everything is alright with your problems etc. Good luck
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I been attracted to a person since 2009 i can technically say that i am in love crazy for that girl,
i am single because i am loyal to that person that my mind makes me believe is the most beatyfull thing in this world,
Oh wait? what? the girl i am in love to is not in this country so
yea thats why i am single, loyal to someone that i dont even now if she wants to do something to me in the future.
love makes people stupid. is like a cage full of beatyfull feelings and surprises that stop you from watching reality aww
and in most cases drives you to a terrible depression. -
People are simple, and it's unattractive.
The truth has been spoken!
Side-note, I think most of us have gotten comfortable being single. That and the fact I have very high standards ( Beauty and richness are not in my top priorities, they are a plus, not a necessity) keep me single for quite a while now.
Besides, most boys in this thread ( after the answers most of you gave, I seriously can't call you men) don't deserve a girlfriend. -
I been attracted to a person since 2009 i can technically say that i am in love crazy for that girl,
i am single because i am loyal to that person that my mind makes me believe is the most beatyfull thing in this world,
Oh wait? what? the girl i am in love to is not in this country so
yea thats why i am single, loyal to someone that i dont even now if she wants to do something to me in the future.
love makes people stupid. is like a cage full of beatyfull feelings and surprises that stop you from watching reality aww and in most cases drives you to a terrible depression.
So you don't have anyway to contact her ?
If you do then go ahead man
, if she didn't have the same feelings for you then at least you have tried and you won't be like that crazy to her
As for me , I'm sure that those types of relationships won't last ...
maybe you will find someone and have fun for a year or more but then what ? nothing as I believe
Or what if you want to just have fun but ... your GF or BF want it to lasts forever ? xD
now that will be awkward to break up
so I guess I'm not the best one for this thread cuz currently I'm not " single " , but yea I was single for a damn long time cuz I just didn't want to have a waste of time relationship ,
I looked for someone who got the same philosophy that I have which is :
look for a partner who will be always with you in your life or just don't begin a little-time/fail relationship -
Been out of a relationship for 5 months now and I hate it, opportunities just keep on slipping through my grasp which I don't like one bit... I need to be more impulsive again; it'd be nice if for once the girl made the first move (am I right guys or am I right). Not being with someone is like running out of wd40 or having your bike chain fall off.
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Been out of a relationship for 5 months now and I hate it, opportunities just keep on slipping through my grasp which I don't like one bit... I need to be more impulsive again; it'd be nice if for once the girl made the first move (am I right guys or am I right). Not being with someone is like running out of wd40 or having your bike chain fall off.
thats not how it goes bro, I was thinking same for awhile and I actually found few girls that are like that and 3/4 of them were backstabing b*****, while 4th one...you don't want to hear about it.
Anyway I know its f***** up thinking but we are supposed to make a first move, thats how it is in our and animal world. Blame the God if you believe in one -
Not really that big of a deal I was just saying, but I've been with a really nice girl who came to me first and I didn't even notice them until that moment. That's why I mentioned it because otherwise if they didn't we would have never met, which is a little crazy to think about.thats not how it goes bro, I was thinking same for awhile and I actually found few girls that are like that and 3/4 of them were backstabing b*****, while 4th one...you don't want to hear about it.
Anyway I know its f***** up thinking but we are supposed to make a first move, thats how it is in our and animal world. Blame the God if you believe in one -
[MOD]NattNatt wrote: »Because women be cray cray....also....I like being single?
YOU'RE CALLING US CRAZY?!
We're not crazy!
We're just too cool for you. Why would we be crazy? Because we remind you to do something every once in a while? Yeah you promised you'd fix the door bell 6 months ago, and yeah maybe I should let you fix it cuz you said you'd fix it but then a year passes and you can't be bothered because you sit your ass in front of the tv watching ****ty football games and wanting a sandwich well get your ass off the couch and get yourself a sandwich.
Men. -
YOU'RE CALLING US CRAZY?!
We're not crazy!
We're just too cool for you. Why would we be crazy? Because we remind you to do something every once in a while? Yeah you promised you'd fix the door bell 6 months ago, and yeah maybe I should let you fix it cuz you said you'd fix it but then a year passes and you can't be bothered because you sit your ass in front of the tv watching ****ty football games and wanting a sandwich well get your ass off the couch and get yourself a sandwich.
Men.
I think most of girls are crazy too.
Aaaand you are not cool at all (not you specificaly), most of girls don't know how to chill so my advice is better leave us chilling when something bother us, give advice or 2 or even show some care but don't nagg cuz you just make things even harder.
I don't know about others but my mind can sometimes be so complicated I drop everything for some time because I really don't need stress. I'm 20 years old and I know it sounds stupid but I had enough stress in my life to listen to a girl yapping over something simple and stupid.
I would always help out a girlfriend because thats how things work and she has to know if I want few minutes of peace. That doesn't mean she should leave me alone I wouldn't mind her sitting next to me but enjoy the silence and peace once in a while because this is mad world and people have to get rid of stress.
You are right about door bell and watching tv and stuff but not everyone is like that. I rarely watch tv and when I do I watch it maybe 10-15 minutes because tv is washing people brains. I don't even watch football or other sports because I find it stupid how it makes so many people sit infront of tv for 90 min watching players kick a ball and those who watch it get crazy most of time and yell at tv.
Honestly if they really like those sports they should go out and play them.
My single status from few days ago: been in love for so long and i still am and will be but for her happiness in life I'm going my own way because she found happiness without me and Im genious enough to let her go and continue my new life without her because world needs a good writers to give people hope. -
I think most of girls are crazy too.
Aaaand you are not cool at all (not you specificaly), most of girls don't know how to chill so my advice is better leave us chilling when something bother us, give advice or 2 or even show some care but don't nagg cuz you just make things even harder.
I don't know about others but my mind can sometimes be so complicated I drop everything for some time because I really don't need stress. I'm 20 years old and I know it sounds stupid but I had enough stress in my life to listen to a girl yapping over something simple and stupid.
I would always help out a girlfriend because thats how things work and she has to know if I want few minutes of peace. That doesn't mean she should leave me alone I wouldn't mind her sitting next to me but enjoy the silence and peace once in a while because this is mad world and people have to get rid of stress.
You are right about door bell and watching tv and stuff but not everyone is like that. I rarely watch tv and when I do I watch it maybe 10-15 minutes because tv is washing people brains. I don't even watch football or other sports because I find it stupid how it makes so many people sit infront of tv for 90 min watching players kick a ball and those who watch it get crazy most of time and yell at tv.
Honestly if they really like those sports they should go out and play them.
My single status from few days ago: been in love for so long and i still am and will be but for her happiness in life I'm going my own way because she found happiness without me and Im genious enough to let her go and continue my new life without her because world needs a good writers to give people hope.
No one really reads your sh1tty stories, you're such an idiot. -
sorry for double post, i cant scroll all the way to edit
and nothing else matters beside her happiness.
I have always been alone and that wont stop me now
I feel great last few days and from now on my happiness matters too, at least to me
Its great to break out of chains that are holding you whole life. -
I think most of girls are crazy too.
Aaaand you are not cool at all (not you specificaly), most of girls don't know how to chill so my advice is better leave us chilling when something bother us, give advice or 2 or even show some care but don't nagg cuz you just make things even harder.
I don't know about others but my mind can sometimes be so complicated I drop everything for some time because I really don't need stress. I'm 20 years old and I know it sounds stupid but I had enough stress in my life to listen to a girl yapping over something simple and stupid.
I would always help out a girlfriend because thats how things work and she has to know if I want few minutes of peace. That doesn't mean she should leave me alone I wouldn't mind her sitting next to me but enjoy the silence and peace once in a while because this is mad world and people have to get rid of stress.
You are right about door bell and watching tv and stuff but not everyone is like that. I rarely watch tv and when I do I watch it maybe 10-15 minutes because tv is washing people brains. I don't even watch football or other sports because I find it stupid how it makes so many people sit infront of tv for 90 min watching players kick a ball and those who watch it get crazy most of time and yell at tv.
Honestly if they really like those sports they should go out and play them.
My single status from few days ago: been in love for so long and i still am and will be but for her happiness in life I'm going my own way because she found happiness without me and Im genious enough to let her go and continue my new life without her because world needs a good writers to give people hope.and nothing else matters beside her happiness.
I have always been alone and that wont stop me now
I feel great last few days and from now on my happiness matters too, at least to me
Its great to break out of chains that are holding you whole life.Get a life
I'm not sure if I need to get a life. You're making the long posts about your pathetic life, you're a joke. -
I think most of girls are crazy too.
Aaaand you are not cool at all (not you specificaly), most of girls don't know how to chill so my advice is better leave us chilling when something bother us, give advice or 2 or even show some care but don't nagg cuz you just make things even harder.
I don't know about others but my mind can sometimes be so complicated I drop everything for some time because I really don't need stress. I'm 20 years old and I know it sounds stupid but I had enough stress in my life to listen to a girl yapping over something simple and stupid.
I would always help out a girlfriend because thats how things work and she has to know if I want few minutes of peace. That doesn't mean she should leave me alone I wouldn't mind her sitting next to me but enjoy the silence and peace once in a while because this is mad world and people have to get rid of stress.
You are right about door bell and watching tv and stuff but not everyone is like that. I rarely watch tv and when I do I watch it maybe 10-15 minutes because tv is washing people brains. I don't even watch football or other sports because I find it stupid how it makes so many people sit infront of tv for 90 min watching players kick a ball and those who watch it get crazy most of time and yell at tv.
Honestly if they really like those sports they should go out and play them.
My single status from few days ago: been in love for so long and i still am and will be but for her happiness in life I'm going my own way because she found happiness without me and Im genious enough to let her go and continue my new life without her because world needs a good writers to give people hope.
I'm sure no girl would be naggy if you don't give her a reason to be.
However my post was purely meant to be a joke.CactusH0rse9 wrote: »No one really reads your sh1tty stories, you're such an idiot.
N'awww that's such an honor!
Now I can join the dot club! Yay. -
I'm sure no girl would be naggy if you don't give her a reason to be.
However my post was purely meant to be a joke.
Yes I'm aware that it was meant to be a joke because of your signature but I had time to explain so I did
Most of both females and males likes to "mind-poke" (so I don't say ****) just to have fun and show care to their loved ones but even that becomes anoying sometimes. Point was there is time for everything and if 2 people love each other and really know themselfs they should know when is right time but problem is in this new age loved ones rarely know each other and thats why problems occur.
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