Friend Zoned
Curious to know if anyone has any tips for me to get out of my 'friend zone'. Long story short, I've known her for 3 years, we cuddle/kiss occasionally, I confessed my feelings and she doesn't want to ruin our 'friendship'. Some friendship right? More like bull **** tease.
My face is a 7-8 depending on the females personal opinion, my physique is slim but toned, a definite 8 or 9 when judged against others my own age. Personality wise I'm very kind, love to flirt and tease, but I believe this is my downfall. I think I'm coming across as too soft, always there for her, basically a shoulder to cry on.
How the **** do I get out of this?
My face is a 7-8 depending on the females personal opinion, my physique is slim but toned, a definite 8 or 9 when judged against others my own age. Personality wise I'm very kind, love to flirt and tease, but I believe this is my downfall. I think I'm coming across as too soft, always there for her, basically a shoulder to cry on.
How the **** do I get out of this?
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Easy.
Get her drunk.
Play a game. Get her to open up feelings towards ya. Even if that means you manipulate her to the point where she starts believing what you're saying.
Then... gently to bed to seal the deal.
The other route is usually the jealousy one... where you date other girls, make a good name... blah blah.
Off-topic.
Where's Tasty when he's the "God" (air quotes) at this sort of endeavor.
On-topic again (edit):
Umm
Usually it ain't such a good thing to confess feelings.
It gives away your power on the relationship, puts the ball in her court... allowing her to "friend zone" you. -
Good tips, my fellow female friends also gave similar advice. The whole opening my feelings part was something I regret. She said it was very cute, like everything else I say, and look where thats got me.
Also to the 'ignore her' part and move on, It's just so hard for me. Everytime she asks to hang out, I fall for it, tell myself that I'm going to lead her on and then stop so she wants more, but then it flips and I'm the one wanting it and she just plays me. She'd make a good ****ing guy I'll giver her that.
I'll just have to grab my sack, let time run its course. -
If you keep falling for her game, it'll get to your head in a very bad way. She'll lead you on, you'll follow like a lap dog and then eventually she'll get a boyfriend and it'll devastate you. You'll become hateful and resentful. You'll begin to hate women and only use them to fill your physical needs. I'm no Casanova, but it seems like the only move here would be to turn the game on her. Tease her, make her want YOU. When she returns the affection, say it's "cute" and kiss her on the cheek and walk away.
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Pro Tip: Girls like the chase. In sh.ort.. be a d.ick.
Get stuck in the friend zone and youre there forever.
Do not "express your feelings" or talk about problems.... You may aswell be like "Hey wanna be my friend so I can moan about things with you?" -
Never ever tell a girl that you love her so much and you can't live without her, you need her blah blah blah. It is the fastest way to lose her respect for you.
Girls like guys to lead them. They like confident, fun, wise, experienced guys.
There are books written on how to be a man that women love, you should read them.
That said, the long term solution is for you to get a good job, have a good source of income.
So, go to a good school, study a good major, when you are successful, you can win her over. -
Gooooooooose wrote: »Fu.ck, well I have a date with a fellow work employee tomorrow. Shes a few years older, I guess it's time to be an assh0le, the destiny for all men.
EDIT: She's coming over in 30 minutes. Thanks for the tips guys
Have fun watching The Notebook Mr. Friend Zone.
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jk. Hope it goes well. Remember mine, the booze helps ease the mood.
Doesn't hurt for you to take a swig yourself too :cool: -
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*Ponders*
*Re-reads posts*
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I feel so unfeminine at the moment.
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But anyhow, it could be clever to ask help from someone who knows the girl better, since if you follow these advice given here, no one knows how she will react in them. But her friends might know better which trick will work to catch her.
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