yo got a problem

DatChub wrote: »

tell her this:



abortion or her life, reputation, and respect lost.

how bout...abortion; and the mental/physoclogical side-affects that result, possibly leading to loss of life/reputation/respect or a life where there is a chance of success.

Both sides leave marks. Some sides however, don't leave deeper or painful marks.

Falloutt wrote: »

you're asking 14-15 year olds for advice on these matters? I don't know which part you failed harder, getting a 15 year old pregnant or asking these people. Just too much fail for me to give you advice.

You beat me to it. Pretty much what I was going to say until I read your post.

[MOD]dot wrote: »

you don't have to have anything to do with the kid or her.



you have no income so she can't exactly demand child support, it'll most likely come out of a government fund (unless your regulations are terrible, i suspect they are).


anyway, its just money. you don't have to deal with the hag* or the child.



* shes obviously a hag for not discussing it, obviously an idiot for thinking a couple weeks old embryo is a person.

Tis called maternal bonding. If it didn't happen, every child around the age 2 would be physically traumatized because the mother would have whacked the heck out of him/her by that age.

(also, people don't have children because they are trying to further populate the human race, so they SHOULD consider them as people.)

My worldview dictates that humans are people.

[MOD]dot wrote: »

If it did happen so early, why are 115,000 abortions being performed daily?
Are all of those women monsters without feelings?


Clearly theres something else at play, most likely shes a confused child who just wants him to stick around.
Won't make anyone happy, and the child will grow up without a father or with a father that resents it, and it'll eventually find out that the only reason it was born was because mommys and daddys a selfish bish(s).

fixed it for yah.

but on a serious note: There is a high chance that She is a confused child, I've never met her. But I will say this, an fool can kill. For all those women know, they could have killed off the next scientest with an amazing backstory who could have cured cancer or AIDS. Who knows?

chances are 50 50 he/she could become the next al capone or the next Einstein. Just because the current mindset of the world says, "let's abort every baby i get so i can continue my nightlife" doesn't mean you have to follow.

Edit: those women are not monsters. they thought they only had 1 option.

[MOD]dot wrote: »

Its not about the parents, its about how the life is going to turn out for the child.


Being able to grasp how it is for people without a mother/father, one can quickly deduce that life could've been better.
I can't be bothered with digging up sources but criminals come from broken families, so the child is more likely to be the next Capone than Einstein, since this will no doubt be a broken family.


Neither of them is ready for a child, its not fair to neither of them or the child.
He should wear a condom, she should drop the religious bs, the +1 to the world population statistics can be born in a happy family by a mature mother and with a father that cares in a couple of years, instead of the shiit it got coming for it if born now.

If you want proof, i'll give it to you. But there is a significantly higher chance of having a broken/divorced family if one or both partners have had sex before their marriage.

So being a "virgin" is actually better in the long run then it is to be "cool".

It is their choice (thread creator and thread creator's GF), but I would strongly recommend against abortion. As there ARE emotional outcomes from both choices. People who do abortions are just as badly hit emotionally as people who kept the baby and became destitute. CowPies are coming anyway. But if you keep the baby, there is a higher probability that the newly found grandmothers/fathers might want the kid. (unless they are pushing for abortion themselves, in which case, they should seriously consider their parenting skills.)

I'll reference the Terri Schiavo case, the parents willing to keep their daughter AND pay for everything, but the husband decided that the "vegetable" wasn't worth the life in it.

If the girl wants to keep the child, then let her. She may be a better mother AND father than the creator of this thread could ever be. Probably might be anyway. I mean, how would you like it if your father considered aborting you. (point of this paragraph was that the baby will be loved, you don't need to be rich to love some one and make life on earth heaven).