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  • id like to see u say that to my face at this given moment and see where it takes u


    it takes u to the hospital

    I would still say it to your face.

    As far as beating my face in, go ahead. Thank God my parents have money and the American justice system is messed up, they will just sue and try you as an adult.
  • This guy is obviously lieing, or he needs help mentally, as this isn't the place to go for help concerning this stuff.

    Seriously though why are you posting about this? Go to websites that actually talk about this stuff, because you probably won't get any symphathy here if you're telling the truth, not to mention help.
  • DatMuffin wrote: »
    Yeah, kids rarely get adopted, and those that do usually just go from home to home.

    Yeah I have a neighbor that who was adopted and suffered in the foster system for 7 years.


    He really hates his Dad. He tells me that if he were to meet him, he would kill him for what he did to his mom.
  • Recitude wrote: »
    This guy is obviously lieing, or he needs help mentally, as this isn't the place to go for help concerning this stuff.

    Seriously though why are you posting about this? Go to websites that actually talk about this stuff, because you probably won't get any symphathy here if you're telling the truth, not to mention help.

    iv been on them all night, and thought i should just pop the question on here..
  • Recitude wrote: »
    This guy is obviously lieing, or he needs help mentally, as this isn't the place to go for help concerning this stuff.

    Seriously though why are you posting about this? Go to websites that actually talk about this stuff, because you probably won't get any symphathy here if you're telling the truth, not to mention help.

    We have offered him help, he doesn't deserve sympathy. His actions were what he chose to do.
  • Lies.

    Foster care is pretty messed up in the USA.

    well at least here on bazil they have hella high standards for families, that's why 90% of the kids aren't adopted here :x

    but meh, you could get:
    -an aborption
    -someone to adopt your child
    -a ninja to assassinate her
    -a job
    -to take care of the child .-.

    further options may appear, but i just cannot think about that, i've been studying like a bish these days >.<
  • Recitude wrote: »
    This guy is obviously lieing, or he needs help mentally, as this isn't the place to go for help concerning this stuff.

    Seriously though why are you posting about this? Go to websites that actually talk about this stuff, because you probably won't get any symphathy here if you're telling the truth, not to mention help.

    Thats prob true

    but Theyre is the possibility that he is that much of an idiot.
  • Thats prob true

    but Theyre is the possibility that he is that much of an idiot.

    or the possibility he asked for your help, not your critisism. He knows what he did, no need to point it in his face.

    Also age isn't that big of a deal, sure there are limits, but my dad is 7 years older then my mom, thats not weird.
  • Thats prob true

    but Theyre is the possibility that he is that much of an idiot.

    The "needs help mentally" part included that possibility.
  • Guld_o wrote: »
    or the possibility he asked for your help, not your critisism. He knows what he did, no need to point it in his face.

    the thing we need t concentrate right now is how to help him
    that maybe useful for you later .-.
  • Guld_o wrote: »
    or the possibility he asked for your help, not your critisism. He knows what he did, no need to point it in his face.

    We have offered him choices, he could go for an adoption.

    He could raise it himself.

    Or he could convince her into an abortion.

    You can't expect all of us to have the same answer because we all have different opinions and beliefs, but it is up to him, and the mother, to decide their future. Or lack thereof.
  • DatMuffin wrote: »
    We have offered him choices, he could go for an adoption.

    He could raise it himself.

    Or he could convince her into an abortion.

    You can't expect all of us to have the same answer because we all have different opinions and beliefs, but it is up to him, and the mother, to decide their future. Or lack thereof.

    I know MOST of you have, but for those that are calling him mental for asking for help, it's not needed. Your welcome to NOT post in this thread. He's being dead serious about something that could mess up his life, no need to be a complete ass about it.
  • guldo i understand people have mixed opinions on the subject and im open to listen to all of them..
  • Guld_o wrote: »
    I know MOST of you have, but for those that are calling him mental for asking for help, it's not needed. Your welcome to NOT post in this thread. He's being dead serious about something that could mess up his life, no need to be a complete ass about it.

    I agree a few people were a tad rude.

    Either way... this needs to be discussed with more than a forum of teenagers and a few adults. The parents of the mother and himself need to discuss it among other things.

    There is also always the possibility that she is lying for attention but you never know.

    For that... have her take the test in a doctors office. I'm not sure but I think planned parenthood offices also have testing. Pregnancy tests have false positives just like condoms can break. Have the test done by a professional.
  • you're asking 14-15 year olds for advice on these matters? I don't know which part you failed harder, getting a 15 year old pregnant or asking these people. Just too much fail for me to give you advice.
  • guldo i understand people have mixed opinions on the subject and im open to listen to all of them..

    tell her this:



    abortion or her life, reputation, and respect lost.
  • why does it seem like everyone gets pregnant while they're still in high school now?
  • Falloutt wrote: »
    you're asking 14-15 year olds for advice on these matters? I don't know which part you failed harder, getting a 15 year old pregnant or asking these people. Just too much fail for me to give you advice.

    im sure they arent all 15..
  • Falloutt wrote: »
    you're asking 14-15 year olds for advice on these matters? I don't know which part you failed harder, getting a 15 year old pregnant or asking these people. Just too much fail for me to give you advice.

    Can you deny that my advice was wrong?

    I'm 15.

    Age doesn't matter as much as the maturity level of the person. I could have easily trolled him like another person in this thread.
  • DatMuffin wrote: »
    I agree a few people were a tad rude.

    Either way... this needs to be discussed with more than a forum of teenagers and a few adults. The parents of the mother and himself need to discuss it among other things.

    There is also always the possibility that she is lying for attention but you never know.

    For that... have her take the test in a doctors office. I'm not sure but I think planned parenthood offices also have testing. Pregnancy tests have false positives just like condoms can break. Have the test done by a professional.

    ^this foh sure
    i still think she's lying to get your attention, saw that happening more than once, tough some of those girls got really pregnant only to hold their BF's >.>
    all of them ended with nothing but a huge responsability on their backs and no bf in the end :/
  • Jigabob wrote: »
    why does it seem like everyone gets pregnant when they're still in high school now?

    That's because people ,seemingly, now more than ever give little thought to their future, not to mention a change in the culture of today compared to the past.
  • Guld_o wrote: »
    or the possibility he asked for your help, not your critisism. He knows what he did, no need to point it in his face.

    Do you understand how bad this is? If the kid comes out, you've screwed one persons life. Thats just another reason why kids shouldnt be having sex.

    Also age isn't that big of a deal, sure there are limits, but my dad is 7 years older then my mom, thats not weird.

    Yes but they probably had you at an age when they already had jobs and knew they could have you.
    Jigabob wrote: »
    why does it seem like everyone gets pregnant while they're still in high school now?
    Recitude wrote: »
    That's because people ,seemingly, now more than ever give little thought to their future, not to mention a change in the culture of today compared to the past.

    Welcome to America.
  • DatMuffin wrote: »
    Can you deny that my advice was wrong?

    I'm 15.

    Age doesn't matter as much as the maturity level of the person. I could have easily trolled him like another person in this thread.

    Maturity is more prevalent in people of much higher age, it is a proven fact in psychology and it is something you can't not deny. While you may be special and all, it's just isn't popular among teens.
  • Falloutt wrote: »
    Maturity is more prevalent in people of much higher age, it is a proven fact in psychology and it is something you can't not deny. While you may be special and all, it's just isn't popular among teens.

    that is completely true, but it doesn't deny that you can't stereotype everyone of a certain age bracket into it.

    It is better to ignore it and just focus on the topic at hand, and that is someones future.
  • Yes but they probably had you at an age when they already had jobs and knew they could have you.





    Welcome to America.

    He has a job, and this child wasn't planned. Also, can you blame teens (not excluding me) these days with the pressures and influences of society and the media. Whats one of the most commeny insults on the forums, is it not ''you pretten virgin''. So teens are pressured into sex to look ''cool'', yet are critised when something negative arrives from it.
  • Welcome to America.

    well, it's almost the same on brazil and pretty much every country that has adolescents .-.
    it's just that they are demanding things that they have no maturity to deal with...
  • 74K37H47 wrote: »
    well, it's almost the same on brazil and pretty much every country that has adolescents .-.
    it's just that they are demanding things that they have no maturity to deal with...

    It's always been like that in all cultures, for as far back as recorded history goes, and probably further beyond that.
  • if you keep the kid its not like you'll be taking care of it. her parents will be.
  • Recitude wrote: »
    It's always been like that in all cultures, for as far back as recorded history goes, and probably further beyond that.

    i fear what children at 8 years old will think like, 50 years from now...