Random Disconnects during gameplay?really?

So aparently other people are having problems with this, during the game play they will get message sayin diconnected or invalid mapdata or hacktool detected, i added the ports 16666,13008 and other one i forgot what it was, added that to my firewall, to my modem firewall, i added the program of the HGWC and crossfire.exe to an exception to the firewall, usually i have 60-70 ping and my download speed is 1.2mb a second and i dont know why this is doin this to me,i run gamebooster with my anti virus off, and every time i get ingame, i start playing and after a while, YAY! disconnected... any other game like counter strike or call duty or anything like that works fine with no problems for me, crossfire is the only game i kinda like most yet,only one with these gay problems... if you ask yes i followed the guide http://forum.z8games.com/showthread.php?t=62263 and have re-installed game many times and done everything i possibly can...now im just screwed cause i finished getting 20k ZP off surveys the other night and now i cant even play normal which really ****es me off but if anyone can help me out it be great, thanks.