Hewwo. Delayed Connection... most rooms

ok well i have gotten further in my issue, and resolved some things...

I had a problem where i couldnt connect to the Login server which i have now sorted, alas now i have further complications, just like Jarvis ****er...

my problem is i can join one or two rooms and play, but other rooms i recieve the connection delayed error...

i join one room and play, go to another, connection delayed, i go back to the first room and can play, but when i go back to the second room, whaddya know? : connection delayed, i try a third room and get connection delayed...

now i could just stay in the first room, but rooms dont always last, and for some reason after 1 or 2 matches in the room the connection gets delayed...

which is just odd...

Do rooms have different IP addresses or sub-IP addresses?

i know for sure that my internet speed isnt the problem, all my ports are open, its a very specific problem.

so, i welcome any solutions and anyone who solves this problem may well get a prize - perhaps an e-cookie, perhaps an e-hooke.r, i havnt decided just yet.

thanks.
V