what the hell Z8?

okay, every single time there is a update/patch, it takes me a complete month to play again, then i got a month to play for the same cycle to repeat, why is this? i have no problem waiting 2 weeks/month to play again but don't you think somebody working with you on the patch is completely Surprise butt F****** everybody on this site that has the same problem? i use to believe it was that the first week everybody was trying to download so the download server was slower, and harder to connect to with millions trying to do so, and i thought of that because the site was slow the first couple of days, and like REALLY slow, because of everybody's complaints of how useless the patches were, or that they are having the exact problems? we need answers, uninstalling and re-downloading the game does not work, iv'e tried the mirrors for west, and east coast. iv'e tried torrent, brothersoft, download.com, ultragaming or whatever, and none of it seizes to amaze me buy WORKING! this isn't a flame, a rant, or a cry, but its more like a scream for answers? should we ALL just wait a couple weeks to let the download servers calm down?