I think this is wrong....is it?
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This.=/ people take going to the prom with people to seriously..... its not even special.... oh well, your loss of $100.
If somebody asked and if it would make them truly happy i would. (even if i didnt get paid)
I went to my prom with a friend cuz she didn't have anyone to go with. She didn't pay me, sure, but that's irrelevant cuz any 'nice guy' would decline the cash anyways.
Point of the matter is, and I'm being honest, I think you're being selfish. Prom is and always will be more important to girls than to guys. If you can make one girl happy by taking her, why wouldn't you?
Only other solution I can see is if you offer to go with her if she can't find anyone to replace you. -
A man has his pride. If he's going with someone just to bang her.... what has this world come to. Yes, it might be for one night, it might not be as "special" as some think. But what would we do if say like the people against Hitler was out just being with some girl for money? People have their pride, and sure I don't see as much of a problem if someone doesn't take the cash, but if he has someone else he wants to take, I really don't see why you'd choose someone as a friend over the one you love. It's about maturity and love guys, not free aids.
I didnt relise he was selling himself.... I thought it was just going to the prom. -
I personally wouldn't do it unless she knew her aunt and you were doing favors in order just to make her happy. If she doesn't I would advise against it. You're toying with her emotions (if she does indeed have a thing for you) and playing mind games. It's dishonest to make someone happy for the sake of making someone happy (and ultimately means nothing), you make someone happy because you WANT to make them happy. If you don't have a problem being intellectually dishonest then go for it, no judgment necessary. Remember though that love doesn't do any favors. Is it wrong? Only if she finds out and has a problem with it.
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Only the immature kids are saying he should go to bang her. The rest of us are saying that he should go to make her happy, if indeed she and her family have done alot for him. Now he didn't mention he wanted to take someone else, if he does then that's a different story. I would have sworn I read that he didn't care much for the prom, so if he's not going, why not sacrifice a few hours of your time to make someone smile? No one likes to go to a party alone.A man has his pride. If he's going with someone just to bang her.... what has this world come to. Yes, it might be for one night, it might not be as "special" as some think. But what would we do if say like the people against Hitler was out just being with some girl for money? People have their pride, and sure I don't see as much of a problem if someone doesn't take the cash, but if he has someone else he wants to take, I really don't see why you'd choose someone as a friend over the one you love. It's about maturity and love guys, not free aids. -
You're a virgin.Green_Ranger wrote: »Only the immature kids are saying he should go to bang her. The rest of us are saying that he should go to make her happy, if indeed she and her family have done alot for him. Now he didn't mention he wanted to take someone else, if he does then that's a different story. I would have sworn I read that he didn't care much for the prom, so if he's not going, why not sacrifice a few hours of your time to make someone smile? No one likes to go to a party alone. -
'She goes to a different school, besides, i don't care for the prom anyways'
'I want to have that one special moment with someone I care for... '
see im kinda confused u think the prom is a special moment that you dont care for anyways?
and its not your prom when its time for yours u can go with whoever
theres only 1 prom might as well make a girl happy
and most of the time if a girl is annoying its because ur not talking so she doesnt want the 'silence' if u talk abt urself past exp or w/e u probably wont find her as annoying
hope u make it through the night if u take her
1 question r u gona sleep with her? -
I think there's a misconception here that taking someone to prom means you need to be in a relationship with them. Several of my friends' dates were girls they were just friends with who needed a date. Mine was too. If there's some expectation that you're going to be in a relationship with her as soon as this is over, either establish that taking her to prom is a one time thing you're doing as a friend, or don't go at all. That said, unless you already have a date, I'd suggest you just go and have a good time. Don't take the money though, that's not good form.
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[MOD]D34d3y3 wrote: »I think there's a misconception here that taking someone to prom means you need to be in a relationship with them. Several of my friends' dates were girls they were just friends with who needed a date. Mine was too. If there's some expectation that you're going to be in a relationship with her as soon as this is over, either establish that taking her to prom is a one time thing you're doing as a friend, or don't go at all. That said, unless you already have a date, I'd suggest you just go and have a good time. Don't take the money though, that's not good form.
Agreed. it stupid how people think its all romantic and stuff.
Hell i had a girl in my maths class ask me when i was in school, felt bad about shooting her down though since i wasnt going to be around for the prom.
Thing is, just go and be friendly, $100 or not it doesnt matter, she asked you cuz you are nice. and be that nice person and let her have a fun night with you (not in the sex sense) -
It's just that.. I don't think the same way as most men, i don't look at a woman and say "DAAAAMN GRRRRL Nice ass!" I show some decency and respect.
I barely see any of that around my parts anymore. But I'm glad you choose what you felt was right. -
It's just that.. I don't think the same way as most men, i don't look at a woman and say "DAAAAMN GRRRRL Nice ass!" I show some decency and respect.Well, let me put it this way then.
Is it so hard to take the $100 and show that girl a good time and give her aunt some peace of mind, knowing that her niece is going to come home safely and without a bun in the oven, when this woman has done so much for you?
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LolliRoger wrote: »Well, let me put it this way then.
Is it so hard to take the $100 and show that girl a good time and give her aunt some peace of mind, knowing that her niece is going to come home safely and without a bun in the oven, when this woman has done so much for you?
apparently so......
Rex and Styx seem to think Proms are serious business as well. well in fact it really isn't. its not as if your going to have to go out with this girl or get married or anything. -
That and apearantly they are under the impression that everyone that is suggesting that he goes is telling him to nail her. I can only assume that they are willfully ignoring the fact that the majority of the people are telling him to be a gentleman and sacrifice 4 hours of his night to make a girl smile.apparently so......
Rex and Styx seem to think Proms are serious business as well. well in fact it really isn't. its not as if your going to have to go out with this girl or get married or anything. -
apparently so......
Rex and Styx seem to think Proms are serious business as well. well in fact it really isn't. its not as if your going to have to go out with this girl or get married or anything.
Some of us like to think out of the box. We all have different opinions of things, if we didn't the world would be even more boring. It can be what you want, it's not a FACT, it's an opinion good sir.
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