Ping,Lag,Ping,Lag

Ok admins answer this one, New update ping jump. I have had this problem before. My ping was 35/45 when first started playing. Update came jumped 65/75, made a post about it, everyone said it was something on my side not the game. Ok so I kept playing, so no big thing my ping 70 avg. can still play. Now new update ping has jumped 112/135, Now tell me its on my side not the patch? Thanks for trashing my game play Z8. I will give up and this game soon. You guys keep patching and trashing the game play. Should I go into the error 18 after a patch that none of you have a clue what caused it? Fix the game or just leave it alone.