Omfg... Im a dad..
Oh crap.. It kinda hit me hard right now.. Like im not going to lie. I just found out my ex had my son yesterday or saturday... I...am like scared... Wow.. Any advice for a new father? lol I mean its not much but I get to see my son every other weekend but need teh advice.
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Just be cool. My daughter isn't going to be born for another 2 months, but I can't wait. Maybe try and get back together with your Ex? I don't know the reason you guys split, but maybe it was for something stupid. You should be there for her, and not be what the government calls a "demographic"
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Here's a tip from a mother with a 2 year old: Always be there for the mom even when she says she doesn't need it. Because she really does. Take your son as much as possible because the mom took care of him for 9 months straight and let alone gave birth. She is exhausted. Play with him as much as you can because he will love you much much more for that. Communication skills with a baby are important
And just love him with all your heart 
Sounds cheesy but its true.
You will do fine
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[MOD]Famasnewb wrote: »Im not sure, I want to get back with her cuz i do love her not only for the kid but yeah it was a stupid reason we split. No im not fleeing the country, yes im prob. paying child support
I'm not one for just admitting I the only one at fault starting an arguement, however, if you really love her, and want to be there for your child, just say you were wrong and that you're always gonna be there for her.
I personally never had to do this, but it works. Also include roses and something else. Be romantic... and bring some pampers too. -
I'm not one for just admitting I the only one at fault starting an arguement, however, if you really love her, and want to be there for your child, just say you were wrong and that you're always gonna be there for her.
I personally never had to do this, but it works. Also include roses and something else. Be romantic... and bring some pampers too.
Lol smartass. But no, I think it was me. Im not for sure. I tried apologizing when she was pregnant and told her that before the kid was born id be standing on my feet and be the original person she fell inlove with.. Cuz im not going to lie, i turned into a complete ass before we broke up and mistreated her.. But heh, kinda scared. I had a friend who had her baby a year ago and shes been teaching me some things with him, Changing diapers/caring/making forumla's and all that.. -
[MOD]Famasnewb wrote: »Lol smartass. But no, I think it was me. Im not for sure. I tried apologizing when she was pregnant and told her that before the kid was born id be standing on my feet and be the original person she fell inlove with.. Cuz im not going to lie, i turned into a complete ass before we broke up and mistreated her.. But heh, kinda scared. I had a friend who had her baby a year ago and shes been teaching me some things with him, Changing diapers/caring/making forumla's and all that..
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Ya, The Mrs and had it out a few years ago and I was going to just say this relationship isn't worth it, but she came to me apologiezing and what not (thats why isay it works) and thankfully I gave it a second chance.
Things happen in time. If it was ment to be then the pieces to the puzzle of life will all come together. Just be cool. Everything normally works out in its own crazy way
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Does a mother play CrossFire ??? I cant believe it....Here's a tip from a mother with a 2 year old: Always be there for the mom even when she says she doesn't need it. Because she really does. Take your son as much as possible because the mom took care of him for 9 months straight and let alone gave birth. She is exhausted. Play with him as much as you can because he will love you much much more for that. Communication skills with a baby are important And just love him with all your heart
Sounds cheesy but its true.
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Take the first 2 years of your childs life as a learning experience. Because no one remembers anything from when they were 2 years old. You can screw up as much as you want during that period of time.
lol jk. But when my mom found out she was going to have a baby, she was terrified just like you. She might not have been the most experienced or confident mother, but I'm not that screwed up am I?
Oh wait no, I am, flee the country. -
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Okay so im only 14 yrs old so if i were you i would not listen to me but this is the best it got. Okay so try to get back with your Ex. no child deserves to have seperated parents. Don't smoke around him. And do your best. Try to remember your childhood and do the same thing to your son (not the bad things. lol). And whatever bad happened in your life learn from it and teach your son. Also get very close to your son. Cuz the love cannot be ended. lol This is all i got... Good Luck.
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